• General,  Kinky Fun,  Talk Nerdy To Me

    Kodi and My Media Library

    The other day, I opened up Kodi and after about ten seconds, got a black screen. Finally, but not until I had reinstalled it, and wiped out my libraries, i found out it was a known error being triggered by…

  • Kinky Fun

    Fetishes

    I was browsing the internet (okay, one specific site and if you’re a member you’ll know which one) and I came across a fetish on someone’s profile. to be spanked until you cry This made my brain light up all…

  • Kinky Fun

    Not Being Selfish is Fucking Hard

    Chatting with a long-time friend tonight, I expressed my frustration with what I’m not finding. He asked me to make a list of everything I need in a partner. This was my list : Dominant but not domineering Really okay…

  • Kinky Fun

    Adulting Like A Motherfucker

    Anyone who knows me, knows I have problems with setting boundaries, and expressing my thoughts and feelings to other people. I had multiple conversations in the last 24 hours where I adulted like a motherfucker. I’m proud of myself. Last…

  • Kinky Fun

    Party Time

    Last night I went to a party. It was a housewarming + birthday party, followed by a play party. I was a little nervous leading up to things, but I sucked it up like a big girl and went. I…

  • Health,  Kinky Fun

    Even My Therapist… 

    I saw my therapist Thursday and we talked about some hard stuff. Mainly my childhood, and how my still current need to be submissive and good has been pounded into me since I was a little girl – don’t get…

  • General,  Kinky Fun

    Party Weekend 

    Friday night I spent a bit longer than usual on my face, grabbed my favorite tote bag with a few things in it, and drove into town. I was going to a party. A birthday party. But not just a…